Just be active here and things will end up feeling the same. Sync for Lemmy will also be a thing in a few weeks if you liked Sync. I'm using Connect for now and it's an okay substitute.
For the time being, Relay is going to be free for everyone to use (this means no fees and no ads) while i continue optimising API calls and finalising subscription prices
Pretty sure even with some of the services purchasing the API access, they are restricting NSFW content on them. While not explaining how specific they are restricting such content (like joke NSFW to actual porn). At the moment RedReader is working as it is exempt from the whole mess but who knows when they are going to kill that.