Hi, I’m new to the fediverse and trying to wrap my head around lemmy specifically.
If i’m signed into an account on beehaw.org and post to a community on lemmy.ml, is my post/comment saves on beehaw.org or lemmy.ml’s server? I understand that it will be federated between both servers but I’m curious which database the post lives i’m. Or is it replicated across both.
And do other federated services work the same way, like mastodon?
If you're on beehaw, then beehaw is the source of truth for your posts. Other instances (such as lemmy.ml) will see and store copies of your content (and can choose to reject it outright), but the original is always your own instance.
Ah got it thanks. Then does the !community I’m posting to just act as a tag to stay organized and help others find the post? Or is it used in the federation of the post to other servers?
What a lemmy group does is something akin to "boosting" any content published to it.
So, lets say you make your post from beehaw to lemmy_support on lemmy.ml. lemmy_support will see your post and then "boost" it, so anyone that follows lemmy_support (ie, is subscribed to it) will see the "boost" (though it doesn't look like a boost through the specialised lemmy interface).
Your post will be stored on both instances. Any media like pictures or videos will only be stored on your instance. Media will be referenced if the content is being viewed on another instance. At least I think so.