‘It’s not for us to have shame’: Gisèle Pelicot faces dozens of men accused of raping her.
‘It’s not for us to have shame’: Gisèle Pelicot faces dozens of men accused of raping her.
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"Multiple women have said that the men they know might have done a “bêtise” but didn’t commit rape. In French, a “bêtise” roughly translates to “something stupid.” It’s a word that parents use to scold children for doing silly things, or that a couple might invoke while bickering."
Does the spectrum for that word usually range from lighting the wrong side of a cigarette to serious crimes against human dignity?
No, a bêtise is when a kid spills her milk or breaks a toy.
In this context I think they use the word as an euphemism for cheating on your spouse, as that's the defense of most of the accused: they thought it was a kink and that Gisèle Pelicot had given her consent.