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It's a false dichotomy. Embrace polyamory.
Did. I'd rather be heart crushingly disappointed by one person at a time instead.
I get that. I think there are higher highs and lower lows. I honestly can't even begin to imagine what it'd be like dealing with two or more breakups at the same time.
Polyamory is what happens when too many type 2 people get together in one place though
I'll have you know I don't have BPD, just ADHD!
Yeah my polycule is all adhd no bpd (though one woman was misdiagnosed with it 20 some years ago). It’s great, nice and stable.
Big criteria overlap between BPD and Complex PTSD.
Fair, and both she and I do have cptsd. But she’s autistic and traumatized. Apparently the doctors thought she was lying as a teenager when she said her mom was dating a “crack whore”.