Would it be worth chucking in an hourly restart cron job/systemd timer for the time being? Not an ideal solution for sure, but maybe that's better than having to jump into the server every few hours (and users experiencing a seemingly stale feed).
Hmm good call out. I hadn't thought about it, but would have assumed there was a DB table with pending outbound sync tasks. Kind of make sense for this to not be the case.
I think I'll disable the restart cronjob when I can. Better to have a frozen "Hot" timeline than federation issues.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't - I don't know enough about Lemmy if the ram federation thing is true but no one on Git has disagreed with it yet
(Actually checking this issue #2142 it seems as if it is the outgoing federation activity sync fails that remain in ram for retry)