This is bullshit. The thing that is wrong.... is wrong. Thats right, this is completely fucking insane. MC has a max mem of ~4GB. The server has 3.5 GB used. (which includes the 1GB that stuff other than MC takes). So why the fuck does it complain about being out of MEM?????? ( ;´ - `;)
Game tab shows the server as online, but as soon as I try to join I join a couple of seconds before it kicks me with that out of memory message thingy.
I just got into the server, and while at the "Please Login" screen I'm able to move and do limited stuff, like punching phantoms that for some reason spawned on me. If I try and login it kicks me. Could the login plugin be responsible for the issues?
Update: After I let the phantoms kill me, I respawned where I last slept, just without my inventory and my skin is still not showing. I can move around normally, no blindness effect but the login screen still show up: