Let's do a thought experiment. A dirty one.
Let's do a thought experiment. A dirty one.
Has everyone read that coverage on the OnlyFans model that had sex with 100 men in under 24h?
I found it a bit disturbing. By her own admission, it was taxing (I'm calling it damaging), physically and mentally, but regardless, she has set her goal to have sex with 1000 men next.
This led me to think, taking this stunt approach out of the picture, if you found an ad looking for participants to achieve a sexual prowess, would you participate in it?
Here are the rules for the scenario I came up.
Some person has set their mind on having sex with 3000 people. May be a woman, may be a man, may be any other in between. Doesn't matter.
They have set the goal to meet those people throughout an entire year. They want to get to know the people they'll be having fun with.
There is no money involved, perhaps a home cooked meal at their place, a glass of wine... those are details to be set case to case.
There will be a guest book to sign, at entrance. With a number at the beginning of the line where you will be signing.
You may be the only person for that day, the first, the third or the last. And you will know.
It can be one on one, threesome, perhaps foursome, but no gangbangs.
This isn't about just penetration but about commiting one or two hours of your life to truly have sex with another human being. Orgasms will be had, linens will be soiled.
This will take years to achieve and you may have to wait your turn. At the end, there will be an after party.
Would you do it?
I wouldn't.
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Even back when I was single, this would be a no. I'm just not into the awkwardness of a one time sex encounter to begin with. Having it also be some kind of forced acquaintance increases that awkwardness to the point that it's a turn off for me.
Don't get me wrong, I have hooked up and done one night stands over the years. That's how I know I wouldn't enjoy the scenario.
The thing about first time sex with someone is that, without a true connection, it ends up being a job. There's a lot of work that goes into a mutually enjoyable sex encounter. Figuring out angles, positions, what and how much foreplay, what the hard noes are, etc. Yeah, you can skip that if all you care about is getting yours, but that sucks, it isn't fun.
Doing all that, for a one time encounter just feels empty and meaningless. Like, why am I going to spend all that time and effort just to fuck someone and go home alone? I'd rather go without an empty sex encounter and spend the same time doing something that's going to be a good memory.
Again, this is my preference. I have zero objection to folks doing such things if they want to. I'd even be happy for them, if it made them happy. It just isn't my thing.
I'm getting my faith in humanity restored.
I've been really impressed that the responses that say no aren't knee-jerk moralism, and the yesses are about having fun. It really is refreshing to see people staying open minded and not creepy at the same time.
Let us hope it will keep that way.