Are you a Dom or a Sub?
Are you a Dom or a Sub?
Yet another simple question I'm surprised I haven't asked yet, given my name.
Anyway, when it comes to kink (or otherwise, I don't know what you vanilla types get up to at night. :P), would you classify yourself as a dominant, submissive or switch?
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I'll give answering this a shot, then....i'm a switch. Hard to say which way I lean though, it all depends on the setting and the other part(y-ies).
One of my main kinks is tickle torture. If you put someone in front of me who's all submissive, helpless, and sensitive...I find myself easily slipping into a dominant role.
However, I also really enjoy seeing myself in that role as well! Something about being unable to hold back, and be driven further and further into hysterics, just...feeling helpless and not in control, it's really rather freeing in it's own right.
I have noticed that if I go too long without being able to express my submissive needs, I get into a pretty miserable mood, though.So it might be fair to say I am a switch, leaning Dominant...but there's just something so freeing and relaxing about being a submissive, that I couldn't go without it.