Let life pass with or without traumatic experience? The YOLO lesson skip too easy the role of luck having in every single jump, and lucky is what it is, one winner and a lot of losers left behind.
Unpopular is actually accept to be born under the losers lines, everyone wants to feel winners without shame.
Thats the lie as my opinion, about the learn and grow. Trauma don't always make you grow but actually most of trauma take you back, eats your years, lock you inside mentals institutes for example. Even the basic reward can strike you down, its all about luck, lose or win.
I don't entirely disagree. I'd prefer to avoid trauma of any kind. It is often detrimental, but not always. Depending on the type or severity, it can spell doom, or be a point of failure that becomes a lesson.