Not when did you come out, that's a whole different story, but when did you know you were a gay bro?
I've always been excited by other guys, I remember being very young (like 7/8) and getting a bit too into the wrestling. My parents turned it off 😩
I was around 13 when someone said something about 'gay' and I learned it was a whole thing. It was like a light bulb moment and a bunch of things instantly made sense. And that was it, came out to some friends not long after and that was it.
Or that long car ride where I pretended to be asleep to bury my face in an older cousin's crotch. I was maybe 13. Looking back, I was probably not discrete as all.
Didn't mess around with other guys until college, and didn't fully come out until 23. Immediately after, I put together the first gaybro meetup in Philadelphia.