Lustery POV - Compulsory Sexuality and Why I’m No Longer Trying to Fix My Libido by Ella Dorval Hall
Lustery POV - Compulsory Sexuality and Why I’m No Longer Trying to Fix My Libido by Ella Dorval Hall
Social definitions of not wanting enough sex or wanting too much sex are preventing us from focusing on the pleasure and intimacy we do enjoy – not focusing on “fixing” my libido has made me feel better about myself and my sex life.
I thought this was a pretty good article that further emphasizes how much of a spectrum sexuality is, and how there is no one size fits all when it comes to sex.
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@khrol If you have someone with a mismatched Libido. I mean, one wants a lot and the other almost none. Are we expecting the high libido person to just suffer without. I have this problem and it is a major source of heart break for me.
I think its a frank discussion that would need to be had between you and your partner, sexual frustration is definitely, well, frustrating and can lead to resentment and other negative emotions that no one wants in a relationship. And while it may not be fair to you that you have a high sex drive and you just have to sit there with this person are attracted to and love, its also not fair to pressure them into sex when they dont want it.
Ultimately, it comes down to whether being with that person is worth the lack of sex. Its a hard question to ask yourself but if sex is an important part of the relationship to you, then as much as you love a person they might not be the best partner for you