It was my first time at that particular group, though I recognized one "daddy dom" (bearded stoner, not my type) from the munch I went to the previous weekend. He and his wife organized it, and folks talked about tame things because we had no privacy next to the pool tables. I had to take the last bus home just an hour in, so I missed out on whatever they ended up doing.
If you know what a munch is, I would assume so. It was marked as a "Valentine's Day" event and I would imagine some folks hooked up at the end of the evening. There was no play at the bar because the place was full of civilians. That's how these things usually are. If you're in a major city you have the luxury of semi-public fetish parties, but out here it's more discreet.