I was a huge pothead for years in highschool and after. Only recently, after getting a pretty good paying job that performs random drug tests do I see that, at least for now, I have to leave marijuana behind me. Smoke one for me, fellow stoners.
Have you tried cbd or cbg? Obv it's not the same, but still helps with sleep, anxiety, etc. Cbg kinda boosts the cbd, or on its own helps with migraines. Also, cbd + 1 drink feels like 3 drinks to me - makes for a good cheap night without a hangover.
If you buy from a good vendor they'll have lab reports on their website, so you can see if they're any thc. There's a reddit sub and a lemmy for hempflowers.