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"rules for thee not for me" - a blahajer and i both accuse each other of being g*y and as always the blahajer gets away with it and the patriot gets banned
what makes this worse is the obvious disrespect from gary of my request to disengage i made it very clear i didnt want to argue these communities have absolutely no standards of behaviour for members of the ingroup which is exactly why i dont engage with them in these communities
well also the fact that i hate being constantly called a troll for not repeating the deepstates latest botfarm talking point talking to these people is an exercise in keeping my calm while i am constantly insulted no thank you
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>Banned from comms I haven't posted to in months because I said "Dragonfucker isn't a gender" on another instance
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/26255506
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for the sake of open discussion and community engagement lets encourage more posts about blajahs moderation policies
im not gonna be fake with you folks weve had way too few of these posts recently ive been ignoring this topic a lot the past few days because for me personally i care deeply about my gender identity and because thats true for me i assume thats true for everyone
the ugliness of the fediverse is that if everyone but you likes the way a particular instance or community is moderated youre stuck with it and cant choose another to hang out on or create your own
blajah has made it pretty unclear by now that they will allow anyone to argue against the validity of xenogenders in order to create an unsafe space for those folks thats unacceptable to me
safe spaces should be disrespected and blajahs admins mods deserve abuse for not creating and maintaining those spaces
i cannot completely misunderstand why blajah users want to have to constantly argue with external users about the validity of their chosen identities bans are not a way blajah has decided to manage that problem so their users can experience lemmy in relative chaos and danger while it is a precise tool and i have no reservations about preemptive bans there are many other options for @[email protected] including defederation from most instances that would be a great outcome for the fediverse as a whole
in order to hinder blajah from maintaining their unsafe space i would like to propose if @[email protected] disagrees and community sentiment is negative
- that we continue to accept posts about this topic in this community and
- we also keep previous posts on this topic in the community
thats all folks dont bother
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still not banned from blahaj due to not enough gatekeeping what the heck (gatekeeping inside)
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/26296035 > everyone is having so much fun dunking on my tiedfor3rd favorite admin and im feeling left out so how about this hows this for gatekeeping try this on for size > > ## the only valid gender is patriot > > from now on patriot will only refer to others with patriot/patriot pronouns although patriot know what this patriot really likes to say i and also patriot know what sounds stupid so i think existing colloquial expressions get a pass and i guess any one/thing/system that identifies with some invalid identity and specifies a preference for a pronoun besides patriot gets a pass too okay so lets break this down > > * the only valid gender is patriot > * im keeping my first person pronouns due to being exceptional > * colloquial expressions are exempt > * invalid identities are allowed > > --- > > the gendered distinction between so called men and so called women and other such things is woke nonsense because listen youre either a patriot or not a patriot and thats that unless you feel strongly about some other identity thats fine too > > ### #GATEMAXING